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Peter Moore's avatar

What’s a meta for? Why are you a guest in your own home? Because we’re all just temporary inhabitants here, occupying space that we’ll have to surrender to someone else one day soon. All the more reason to be good guests, and preserve the space for the next caretaker!

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Nikki Tate's avatar

Truer words were never spoken :)

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Margaret Bienert's avatar

I have had the same experience of sleeping in the guest room of the house that was once m6 home. A lovely piece, and beautiful paintings.

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Nikki Tate's avatar

Thank you Margaret. I never get tired of the paintings. If only I had a castle with enough walls to hang them all...

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Suzan Colón's avatar

Beautifully written, as usual.

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Nikki Tate's avatar

Thank you Suzan 😊

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Mariah Friend's avatar

That push-pull of the past/future is one I’ve been grappling with, especially as we prepare for our move. There is so much memory tied up in the physical place that I am honestly feeling relieved to be somewhere else, for awhile. It feels like a fresh start, for now. The demarcation between who I was/my childhood and who I get to be and become as part of a new family of three.

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Nikki Tate's avatar

Place/time as demarcation between who you were and the person/family you are becoming... I like that... Thank you for sharing your thoughts. ❤️

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frieda wishinsky's avatar

This is touching Nikki. Heartfelt and moving with the

details of past and present. Hope we get to do coffee somewhere again. Hugs, Frieda

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Nikki Tate's avatar

Thank you Frieda - oh, I would love to see you. Any westward trips planned? Or should we meet in Paris?

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Alex Van Tol's avatar

I love the content of this post, so wistful and yet so accepting. And even more (and as always) I am blown away by your ability to pull gigantic concepts down from the ethers and put words around them that make clear those universal themes that haunt us all. Nicely done, always a pleasure

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Nikki Tate's avatar

Thank you so much for your kind words... haunted. Yes. That is exactly the right word :)

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Sara Cassidy's avatar

Beautiful, Nikki. Honest and sad and beautiful. You father is alive in what you are writing.

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frieda wishinsky's avatar

I would love to to either place. We were in Paris in the spring. Admire your many talents!

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